I know in the core of my heart that if any part of my life were to have been any different, I would not be the person I am today. I've grown to like who I am today. I am comfortable with “me.” So, if the journey I have traveled thus far can be of benefit to someone out there, and if I can pass along any hope and inspiration, then I openly share myself with you knowing my struggles have been worthwhile.
Monday, November 26, 2012
Hop aboard the Joy Bus!
“What do you want to be when you grow up?”
that age old question.
I was a little girl, I wanted to be a school bus driver. Lol, makes me giggle just typing that.😊 While all the other kids wanted to be a doctor, a
policeman, a fireman, a teacher...then…yep, there I was, that awkward little girl with bow legs and freckles, who wanted to be a
school bus driver.I was always way too
self-conscious to admit something so embarrassing, so I never revealed my sweet lil' secret to anyone. That is, until the real reason dawned on me, and I finally realized WHY I was so drawn to wanting to drive a school
bus for a living.
I was in first grade, I remember having the most kind and beautiful bus driver
who would stop near the corner of Londonberry Lane to pick up the school crew every weekday morning.She was so pretty and so nice, and she
greeted everyone with such friendliness and warmth, that one couldn’t help but
feel extra special in her presence.She
welcomed us onto the bus with a big bowl of hard candy (this was back in the
'70s!) and was always so pleasant and sweet.There was a permanently etched smile on her face, and a ‘sing-song’
melody to her voice.What a wonderful
way to start the day greeted by a woman spilling over with kindness!
years later it hit me, it's not WHAT she was doing, but WHO she was that led me
to believe I wanted to be a school bus driver.I wanted to be just like her because of how special and valued she made
me feel; because of her cheery disposition and genuine smile; because of the
uplifting impact she made on those around her; because of the way she brought
joy to each and every child who boarded her inspiring bus filled with love and
of being defined by something outside of ourselves, a “job” or a “position” we
acquire, what if we were to grow up with people asking what qualities we admire
in others, what things we enjoy doing, what makes us happy and brings our soul
alive.I think these are the real questions we need
to ask.It is these questions that will
lead to a path of fulfillment, as it becomes a discovery of those gifts already
within ourselves, our inherent talents and passions; and when our work is based
around that, it is then we will find happiness – when it is about WHO we are,
not “what” we think we should be doing.
other words, when how we earn a living matches our interests and passions, it
stops feeling like work.And even if
that isn’t how we earn our living, as long as we’re doing something in our
lives that enhances those traits, such as a hobby, sport, craft or volunteer
work, we feel more alive and our lives flow so much smoother because we are
living a more balanced life.
Just like my unforgettable bus driver from long ago (who never worked a day in her life!), I
love making a difference, spreading kindness, bringing joy and inspiration to
others. So I ask you to look
for the qualities you admire in others, and then to explore your heart and soul and find
those traits and other jewels in yourself. Also ask your children and other people
in your life what they’re passionate about and encourage their interests … and
let’s all hop on the joy bus and enjoy and embrace a purposeful passion-filled life!
“To love what you do and feel it matters, how could anything be more fun?”~Katherine Graham
"Choose a job you love, and you will neverwork a day in your life."~Confucius